This coming Sunday (Dec. 21) at 9:00 a.m., some of our adult classes at MoSt Church will continue in a study entitled Eluding Our Idols. It’s a close look at what’s commonly known as John’s letters (1, 2 & 3 John). To help you get ready for this encounter with God’s word and our discussion of it, you’ll find the below: (a) the text of 1 John 2.7-11; 3.13-24 and (b) twenty questions and exercises to go along with this reading.
receiving this word
Dear friends, I’m not writing a new commandment to you, but an old commandment that you had from the beginning. The old commandment is the message you heard. On the other hand, I am writing a new commandment to you, which is true in him and in you, because the darkness is passing away and the true light already shines. The one who claims to be in the light while hating a brother or sister is in the darkness even now. The person loving a brother and sister stays in the light, and there is nothing in the light that causes a person to stumble. But the person who hates a brother or sister is in the darkness and lives in the darkness, and doesn’t know where to go because the darkness blinds the eyes. …
Don’t be surprised, brothers and sisters, if the world hates you. We know that we have transferred from death to life, because we love the brothers and sisters. The person who does not love remains in death. Everyone who hates a brother or sister is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life residing in him. This is how we know love: Jesus laid down his life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. But if a person has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need and that person doesn’t care—how can the love of God remain in him?
Little children, let’s not love with words or speech but with action and truth. This is how we will know that we belong to the truth and reassure our hearts in God’s presence. Even if our hearts condemn us, God is greater than our hearts and knows all things. Dear friends, if our hearts don’t condemn us, we have confidence in relationship to God. We receive whatever we ask from him because we keep his commandments and do what pleases him. This is his commandment, that we believe in the name of his Son, Jesus Christ, and love each other as he commanded us. The person who keeps his commandments remains in God and God remains in him; and this is how we know that he remains in us, because of the Spirit that he has given to us. (1 John 2.7-11; 3.13-24 CEB)
wrestling with this word
1. How is the command John writes about both “old” and “new” (2.7-9)? What is this this command?
2. “The darkness is passing away and the true light already shines.” (2.8b) What is meant by this?
3. Knowing what we do of this letter’s original recipients and context, who is 2.9 talking about? Why?
4. “Don’t be surprised … if the world hates you.” (3.13) Define “world.” Why expect hatred? (3.14)
5. “The person loving a brother and sister stays in the light.” (3.10) “The person who does not love remains in death.” (3.14b) Brotherly love is crucial, not optional! How can we nurture such love?
6. Do believers today try hard to insure the world doesn’t hate them? Are they shocked when it does?
7. What is “eternal life?” (3.15) Let John 17.3 inform you. How does this tie in with 1 John 3.17b?
8. How do Christians know how to go about loving others? (3.16) What does love look like? (3.16-17)?
9. Our life isn’t compartmentalized before God. Loving him and loving others are one (3.16-17). Why?
10. Why note the withholding of material things as a sign of a dropped connection with God? (3.17)
11. We all want to know we belong to the truth and want to be confident before God. (3.18-19) How?
12. Restate 3.18 in your own words.
13. How do you love someone with “truth?” (3.18b) cf. John 4.24 for use of the same word for “truth.”
14. What exactly is our “heart?” (3.19-21) Define it. What is an effective synonym for “heart?”
15. How might the first readers have struggled with having confident hearts before God (3.18-21)?
16. We all want what we ask of God to receive a big “Yes” from him. What enables that? (3.22)
17. When you don’t get what you ask for is that to be understood as a sign you’re disobedient? (3.22)
18. “We keep his commandments and do what pleases him.” (3.22) What pleases God? (3.23)
19. To believe in the name of Jesus and to love each other (3.23) is one “commandment?” How so?
20. How can a Christian know that God lives in them (3.24)?
As water reflects the face, so one’s life reflects the heart. (Proverbs 27.19 NIV)
NOTE: Following is the discussion guide we’ll use tomorrow (Feb. 9) in our LIFE groups at MoSt Church. This guide will enable your follow-up of my sermon that morning. This sermon is the second in a four-part series entitled Giving.
To find previous group discussion guides, look under the category title “LIFE group guides” and you’ll find an archive of previous issues.
Stated in a single sentence, this is the purpose of this sermon series, or this particular sermon in a series.
To explore and emphasize the importance of our giving of our means.
These Scriptures form some of the foundation of this morning’s sermon. Words underlined are stressed in the Greek.
• … we want you to know about the grace that God has given the Macedonian churches. In the midst of a very severe trial, their overflowing joy and their extreme poverty welled up in rich generosity. For I testify that they gave as much as they were able, and even beyond their ability. Entirely on their own, they urgently pleaded with us for the privilege of sharing in this service to the Lord’s people. And they exceeded our expectations: They gave themselves first of all to the Lord, and then by the will of God also to us. So we urged Titus, just as he had earlier made a beginning, to bring also to completion this act of grace on your part. But since you excel in everything—in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in complete earnestness and in the love we have kindled in you—see that you also excel in this grace of giving. I am not commanding you, but I want to test the sincerity of your love by comparing it with the earnestness of others. For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that you through his poverty might become rich. (2 Corinthians 8.1-9 NIV)
• Everyone should give whatever they have decided in their heart. They shouldn’t give with hesitation or because of pressure. God loves a cheerful giver. (2 Corinthians 9.7 CEB)
Use one of the following icebreaker questions to prime the pump, to help the conversation begin. Choose one to discuss.
1. As a child, what was a toy you had that you never wanted to share?
2. Tell us of something you gave or shared one time that gave you great joy to do.
These exercises/questions are meant to help us grapple with the Scripture(s) related to this morning’s sermon.
1. To whom were the Macedonian & Corinthian Christians giving? What was the need?
2. What is stated in the texts above as their source and their motivation of giving?
3. What exactly was God’s “grace” (2 Cor. 8.1) to the Corinthian Christians? What was Christ’s “grace” to them (2 Cor. 8.9)?
These questions assist our sharing what we sense God’s Spirit is doing with us in our encounter with God’s word.
1. We think of prayer and Scripture reading as spiritual disciplines. How is giving such?
2. How is “overflowing joy” (8.2) and “cheerfulness” (9.7) connected with godly giving?
3. What can a Christian do to nurture their growth of a healthy, happy heart for giving?
This idea/suggestion is for your use beyond the group meeting; to aid in living out this message in the coming days.
1. Thoughtfully and carefully review and evaluate the history of your giving through the years and where you currently stand in your participation and maturing in this grace.