LIFE group discussion guide: suffer

NOTE: Following is the discussion guide we’ll use tomorrow (Mar. 15) in our LIFE groups at MoSt Church. This guide will enable your follow-up of my sermon that morning. To find previous group discussion guides, look under the category title “LIFE group guides” and you’ll find an archive of previous issues.


Stated in a single sentence, this is the purpose of this morning’s sermon.

To remind us that fully following Christ will cost us; leading us to, and thru, suffering.


These Scriptures form some of the foundation of this sermon.

• He was despised and rejected — a man of sorrows, acquainted with deepest grief. … He was oppressed and treated harshly … When he sees all that is accomplished by his anguish, he will be satisfied. (Isaiah 53.3a,7a,11 NLT)

• He then began to teach them that the Son of Man must suffer many things … (Mark 8.31 NIV)

• A disciple is not above the teacher, but … like the teacher. (Luke 6.40 NIV)

• … calling the apostles back, they had them beaten. They ordered them not to speak in the name of Jesus, then let them go. The apostles left … rejoicing because they had been regarded as worthy to suffer disgrace for the sake of the name. Every day they continued to … proclaim the good news … (Acts 5.40-42 CEB)

• … he has graciously granted you the privilege not only of believing in Christ, but of suffering for him as well. (Philippians 1.29 NRSV)

• … if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God. To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps. … even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed. (1 Peter 2.20-21; 3.14 NIV)


Use the following icebreaker question to prime the pump for group conversation.

1. Tell us of a time you thought you’d get something for free, but found it cost much.

2. What have you paid dearly for in life, and so, have special thought or feeling for it?


These exercises/questions are meant to help us grapple with the Scripture(s) related to this sermon.

1. List the things people did to Jesus that must have caused his heart anguish.

2. Read and ponder James 5.7-11 and 1 Peter 2:19-25; 4.12-19.


These questions help us discern and share what we sense God’s Spirit is doing as we encounter his word.

1. What specific sort of sufferings, because you believe, unsettle your heart most?

2. Tell us of a time you suffered because you believe and some good came from that.

3. How does self-pity express itself? How does it hinder spiritual maturity in Christ?

4. What attitudes are needed to face suffering well? What actions grow such a mind?


This idea/suggestion is for your use beyond the group meeting; to aid your living out today’s message.

1. Become more aware of the plight of Christians elsewhere on earth. Pray for them.

2. Develop a “How can I bring the most glory to God in this moment?” mindset.