LIFE group guide: come together anyway


NOTE: Following is the discussion guide we’ll use in our LIFE groups at MoSt Church tomorrow (Jan. 12). This guide will enable your follow-up of my sermon that morning. This sermon is the second in a series entitled Gatherings. This series will run through the month of January.

To find previous group discussion guides, look under the category title “LIFE group guides” and you’ll find an archive of previous issues.


Stated in a single sentence, this is the purpose of this sermon series, or this particular sermon in a series.

To explore and emphasize the importance of our gathering together as a church.


These Scriptures form some of the foundation of this morning’s sermon.

• I have a serious concern to bring up with you … I’ll put it as urgently as I can: You must get along with each other. You must learn to be considerate of one another, cultivating a life in common. I bring this up because some … brought a most disturbing report to my attention—that you’re fighting among yourselves! I’ll tell you exactly what I was told: You’re all picking sides, going around saying, “I’m on Paul’s side,” or “I’m for Apollos,” or “Peter is my man,” or “I’m in the Messiah group.” (1 Corinthians 1.10-12)

• Brothers and sisters, I couldn’t talk to you like spiritual people but like unspiritual people, like babies in Christ. I gave you milk to drink instead of solid food, because you weren’t up to it yet. Now you are still not up to it because you are still unspiritual. When jealousy and fighting exist between you, aren’t you unspiritual and living by human standards? (1 Corinthians 3.1-3)

• … I have no praise for you, for your meetings do more harm than good. In the first place, I hear that when you come together as a church, there are divisions among you, and to some extent I believe it. No doubt there have to be differences among you to show which of you have God’s approval. (1 Corinthians 11.17-19)


Use one of the following icebreaker questions to prime the pump, to help the conversation begin. Choose one to discuss.

1. What are the main excuses you hear folks offer for not “going to church?”

2. Name something you deeply love and appreciate about our church family.


These exercises/questions are meant to help us grapple with the Scripture(s) related to this morning’s sermon.

1. Scan 1 Corinthians. Make a list of the most obvious sins in the Corinthian church.

2. Scan 1 Cor. Make a list of the apostle Paul’s “prescriptions” for the Corinthians’ “sin sickness.”


These questions assist our sharing what we sense God’s Spirit is doing with us in our encounter with God’s word.

1. Every sin we commit, private and public, always affects the whole church.” Discuss.

2. If it were not for the good I’ve experienced in the life of the church I would be __________.

3. A friend says “I quit church due to all the hypocrisy.” A constructive response?

4. What does truly “healthy talk” about sin in each other’s lives sound like?


These ideas/suggestions are for your use beyond the group meeting; to aid in living out today’s message in the coming days.

1. Work at developing a mind and way that is always aware of, and sensitive to, the unchurched.

2. Deliberately encourage two people this week: one who has “quit church” and one who has not.