LIFE group guide: the ‘where did I go wrong?’ verse


NOTE: Following is a copy of the discussion guide that will be used in MoSt Church’s LIFE groups tomorrow night (March 24). This guide will enable your follow-up in our LIFE groups of my sermon tomorrow morning. This sermon is part three in a series that deals with some of the most commonly misunderstood and misused Scriptures. The series title is I Do No Think It Means What You Think It Means. This second sermon in the series deals with Proverbs 22.6 and is entitled “The ‘Where Did I Go Wrong?’ Verse.” Look under the category title “LIFE group guides” and you’ll find an archive of previous discussion guides. All Scripture texts reproduced below are from the CEB.


To examine familiar Scripture more closely, so as to correct our misunderstanding.


• … all the earth’s nations will be blessed because of him [Abraham]. I have formed a relationship with him so that he will oversee his children and his household after him. And they will keep to the Lord’s path, being moral and just so that the Lord can do for Abraham everything he said he would. (Genesis 18.18-19)

• Love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your being, and all your strength. These words that I am commanding you today must always be on your minds. Recite them to your children. Talk about them when you are sitting around your house and when you are out and about, when you are lying down and when you are getting up. (Deuteronomy 6.5-7)

• Listen, my people, to my teaching … I’ll declare riddles from days long gone—ones that we’ve heard and learned about, ones that our ancestors told us. … we’ll tell the next generation all about the praise due the Lord and his strength—the wondrous works God has done. (Psalm 78.1-4)

• Train children in the way they should go; when they grow old, they won’t depart from it. (Proverbs 22.6)

• … parents, don’t provoke your children to anger, but raise them with discipline and instruction about the Lord. (Ephesians 6.4)

• I’m reminded of your authentic faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice. I’m sure that this faith is also inside you. … Since childhood you have known the holy scriptures that help you to be wise in a way that leads to salvation through faith that is in Christ Jesus. (2 Timothy 1.5; 3.15)


Icebreaker questions are meant to help us all start talking. Choose one of the following to discuss as a group.

1. Tell us what you know of your genealogy or lineage of faith, or the lack thereof.

2. Name a Bible character who chose unbelief over their parents of faith. Or vice versa.


These questions are meant to help us grapple with Scripture related to this morning’s sermon. Choose some.

1. What’s the intended point of the last sentence of the Deut. 6.5-7 text? What’s the relationship of this sentence with the opening sentence of that passage?

2. Taken by itself, Proverbs 22.6 can sound like a promise. Why is it not a promise?

3. How could Christian parents “provoke” their “children to anger,” perhaps even over matters of faith (Eph. 6.4)? Let your answers arise from the rest of Ephesians 6.


These questions facilitate our sharing what we sense God’s Spirit is doing with us thru his word. Choose some.

1. Why do you have faith now at this point in your life? What are the biggest factors?

2. What are some huge points of influence at work today that are eroding away faith?

3. Which plays a bigger role in influencing youth: teaching truth or living truth? Why?

4. Think of someone who left faith, but came back. What did they say led to renewal?

5. What have you seen a church actually do to help parents raise kids of faith that worked?

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s