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Certainty & faith: When Certainty Kills [essential reading]

“Is it possible that certainty itself has become God for many Christians? Our worship of certainty may be tantamount to idolatry.”

Children, parenting & technology: Steve Jobs Was a Low-Tech Parent

“’So, your kids must love the iPad?’ I asked Mr. Jobs, trying to change the subject. The company’s first tablet was just hitting the shelves. ‘They haven’t used it,’ he told me. ‘We limit how much technology our kids use at home.’”

Christianity & ISIS: ISIS vs the Way of Jesus

“… I’m not a politician. I’m a private citizen and a follower of Jesus who has spent 32 years in the Middle East. I speak Arabic. I’ve met personally with the leaders of Hezbollah, Muslim Brotherhood, Hamas and the Bin Laden family.”

Desperation, hunger & spiritual need: This Common Ingredient in the Gospel Narratives May be the Missing Ingredient in Many Churches

“Whether we feel it or not and whether we realize it or not the same is true for us – we are desperate for Jesus. We just need to realize it. We need to reclaim it. … What will it take for us to become desperate for God again?”

Family: The ‘Leave It to Beaver’ Family Has Been Left Behind

“While in 1960, 65 percent of children lived with families in which the parents were married and the father was the sole breadwinner, only 22 percent of children lived in this setup in 2012. Children now are more likely to live in a single-mother household (23 percent), while a plurality (34 percent) live in families where parents are married and both work.”

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ALS & Lou Gehrig: Put Down That Bucket of Ice Water. Read Lou Gehrig’s Story. Learn About the Science of ALS. Then Donate.

“If social pressure isn’t enough to convince you to donate to ALS research, the heart-wrenching story of Lou Gehrig and the science behind the illness that shares his name should be.”

C-sections, healthcare & pregnancy: The Cesarean-Industrial Complex

“New research finds that compared with those born vaginally, C-section babies go on to have a  22 percent higher risk of obesity, nearly double the risk of celiac disease, a 20 percent higher risk of asthma and type 1 diabetes, and up to an 800 percent higher risk of sensitivity to allergens.”

Churches of Christ, division & fellowship: * What Makes a Church a Church of Christ?; * Top 10 Ways Churches of Christ in America Can Survive and Thrive in the “4th Great Awakening” [essential reading]

* “…  if we are serious about letting the Bible draw the lines, set the standard and call the shots then we need to be as gracious as what we find in scripture and stop saying people aren’t Christians or churches aren’t really churches over matters as serious as anything on this list or as trivial as the crazy things people divide and disfellowship over until they get it all perfect.”

* “How can we look through this cultural maelstrom and not only survive, but thrive?”

Expectations, honesty, parenting & reality: Lies We Tell Our Kids

“When we say they’re smart … they assume school should require little effort. When we suggest they’re ‘amazing’ … they wonder why everyone doesn’t adore them and want to be around them. When we tell them they’re gifted … they get confused that people won’t pay big money for their talent. When we say they’re awesome at their sport … they don’t understand why talent scouts don’t recruit them.”

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Bible class, children, church & Sunday School: Sunday Schooling Our Kids Out of Church

“… churches creating Sunday School experiences for kids that ran concurrently with their parents’ worship service.  In other words, kids and parents were separated from each other, having different Sunday experiences. … But there was (and is) one huge unintended consequence:  We have raised the largest unchurched generation in the history of our country.”

Churches of Christ & religious debates: Debates

“No person and no church will ever agree on all topics. It is good to discuss many biblical and religious concepts, but all in love and in full fellowship with God, Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit, and all godly people through Jesus Christ.”

Encouragement, grief, mourning & respectTo Mourn, or Not to Mourn [required reading]

“When someone dies our first response should not be to condemn the life that has been lost or those who are mourning. The world needs to see compassion from us. They need to know we care. There are people struggling with depression and drug addiction all around us and to dismiss these diseases is to show a lack of compassion. The way of Jesus is not to condemn people who are hurting, but to come alongside them and to help them in their time of trouble. To help, show compassion, or mourn the effects of drug addiction or depression is not to approve of them. When we do these things we are showing empathy. We are trying to understand and help people escape the darkness they feel encompassed by. To fail to act in this way is to turn our backs on people who desperately need help.”

Generations & Gen Z: Coming Soon to a Workplace Near You: Generation Z

“… the most common definition of Gen Zers as being born after 1996 …”

Ministry: * The Two Times the Pastor is Most Vulnerable; * Higher Calling, Lower Wages: The Vanishing of the Middle-Class Clergy

* “The minister is most vulnerable at two times: in the few minutes before the morning service begins and in the half hour after it ends.”

* “There is certainly a growing trend towards bi-vocational ministry in both mainline and evangelical churches … This trend dovetails with other recent developments that are troubling to many religious communities. Not only is church attendance in long-term decline, but financial giving by church members is at Depression-era lows. Meanwhile, seminary students are taking on ballooning debt for a career that may not exist by the time they graduate. This trend began before the Great Recession, and has only worsened since then.”

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This post consists of a short list of links to articles and posts that I’ve come across of late that I’ve found worthy of thought. My notice of them here – unless otherwise noted – should never be construed as my endorsement of, or agreement with, everything these posts contain. However, I do believe these articles discuss matters in such a way that our awareness can be developed and our reflection stimulated. Enjoy!

Biodiversity, extinction & ecology: Oh, the Destruction We Can Wreak [required reading]

“… on average one species on earth goes extinct every eight hours.”

Culture & parenting: Global Parenting Habits That Haven’t Caught On In the U.S.

“Some might make American parents cringe, but others sure could use a close study. Vietnamese mothers, for instance, get their kids out of diapers by 9 months. Read on for a sampling of parenting lessons from around the world.”

Depression, hope & Robin Williams: Some Need Hope

“…  Robin took his own life, after suffering with depression for some time. There are others around us, wearing a mask of smiles, covered by a mantle of success, that are suffering on the inside. Some of them sit down the pew from us at church. Not all will take their lives. But many will want to. May God grant us eyes to see these people.”

Generations & Generation Z: Coming Soon to a Workplace Near You: Generation Z

“Following the most common definition of Gen Zers as being born after 1996 means they’re still in school, for the most part, but they’ll be arriving as part-time workers and interns before we know it, and it’s not too soon to start building some insight. … Even more than the Millennials, Gen Zers are … digital natives who have grown up in a world of technology. … Partly because of technology, Gen Zers are born multitaskers. … they’re comfortable in global diversity. … Gen Z is socially and environmentally aware. … Finally, they’re entrepreneurial and flexible. … They’re looking for innovation and independence.”

God’s will: God’s Will in Calvinism and Arminianism

“Whenever someone simply tosses out Ephesians 1:11 as “proof” of their theology of God’s sovereignty I know what I’m dealing with—an immature, unreflective, simple-minded Christian who does not yet understand that they are interpreting Ephesians 1:11 and that there are other interpretations of it.”

Introspection, journaling, narcissism & self-absorption: Introspective or Narcissistic?

“The question is: How do you succeed in being introspective without being self-absorbed? … The problem is that the mind is vastly deep, complex and variable.”

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Appreciation, encouragement, gratitude & thankfulness: 25 People You Should Say Thank You To Today [required reading]

“Sometimes we get so caught up in our own little world that we forget to thank the people who have helped us the most.”

Church announcements, communication corporate worship, worship gatherings: Why Your Church Needs More (Often) Announcements in Worship

“Historically, the church began worship services by announcing all member-related deaths. Nothing screams ‘Let’s worship!’ like announcing Aunt Geraldine’s funeral.”

Communication, disagreement, discussion, listening, unity & words: The Art of Having Conciliatory Theological Discussions – Suggestions

“It has taken me a while to figure a few things out when it comes to discussing a disagreement with someone. Here are a few observations I have made over the last few years that set a positive tone for a healthy conversation.”

Fathers, parenting & words: When Daddy is Silent

“A daddy’s silence can be deadly. Far too many men are silent at all the wrong times.  A father’s silence can communicate volumes. The absence of his voice can leave a boy or girl feeling emotionally alone.”

Humility, knowledge, leadership, ministry, missions, others, perception & understanding: What People in Other Countries Need (And What We Think They Need) [required reading]

“… keep in mind … the principle of relative deprivation. It’s the idea of wanting something because others have it.”

Ministry & prayer: What is the Most Common Ministry Priority that a Pastor Neglects?

“… week after week, I saw the things I was supposed to be doing getting squeezed out of my schedule because there were urgent demands on my time. Above all else, the one task that seemed to get squeezed out most was prayer. … Unfortunately, prayer doesn’t demand your attention. In the midst of people wanting your time and urgent tasks to complete, spending time in prayer is easy to neglect.”