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Attitude, life, outlook & perspective: How to View the Struggles of Your Day

“In every situation, we can choose to think higher. We are not to live in denial of the rugged nor insulting terrain. Rather, we are to set our minds upon the many more elements that are going right.  In every case (note: every), conditions could be much worse; but they are not. I’ve encountered brutal take your breath away kinds of days. By His clear call, I have understood that even these could be worse.  Leading my mind to think upon the many issues going well has allowed God the room to prove His above point. Peace that cannot be explained … arrives.”

Change, fear, generations & the Holy Spirit: Why are We So Afraid of Change?

“Fear isn’t to be the church gauge. Trust in the Spirit is. Change is an ever-present trait of the Holy Spirit of God. Each generation needs to remember this as we strive to move forward in the most exciting kingdom ever!”

Communication, leadership, problems & relationships: A Culturally Intelligent Way of Handling the Elephant in the Room

“I’ve always been a fan of directly addressing the elephant in the room. I don’t enjoy conflict but I loathe avoiding it even more.”

Depression & mental illness: * Five Common Myths About Depression; * Mental Illness & The Church: An Interview with Amy Simpson

* “1. Depression is synonymous with sadness. … 2. Depression is a sign of mental weakness. … 3. Depression is always situational. … 4. Depression symptoms are all in your head. … 5. If you are diagnosed with depression, you’ll be on antidepressants the rest of your life.”

* “One of the most painful elements of mental illness is that it’s marked by isolation, which is exactly the opposite of what people need. Everybody needs community and loving friendship and a place where they belong. And one of the things people with mental illness most need is for this kind of loving community to tighten around them, not to loosen. This is one of the things the church can provide.”

Discipleship & faith: Kent Brantley: Every Now and Then a Disciple Breaks Outs

“Who says that kind of thing in that moment?”

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Read the same way you eat a watermelon: swallow the meat and spit out the seeds.

Aging, business, fulfillment, meaning, retirement & work: Why Retirement is a Dirty Word

“… we’ve now raised a few generations to look for fulfillment in the pasture, not their work. Satisfaction is a future thing, not a present possibility. Joy is for later. Meaning and significance comes from checking out down the road. If you’re looking for a way to murder your heart, then congratulations. That’s it.”

Beauty, femininity, modesty & sexuality: Dear Teens, I Do Not Want to Photograph Sex Appeal

“Girls, sexy is not the only way to show your beauty.  You do not have to pose and dress provocatively in pictures to be beautiful.”

Demographics, history, people movements & the United States: Where We Came From, State by State

“We charted how Americans have moved between states since 1900. See how your state has changed.”

Evil, faith, good, perspective, right, truth & wrong: Faith is Messy – Which is Where God is Found [required reading]

“When we start with big universal ideas, at the level of concepts and –isms, we too often stay there—and forever argue about theory, and making more ‘crucial distinctions.’ At that level, the mind is totally in charge. It is then easy to think that ‘I love people’ (but not any individual people). We defend universal principles of justice but would not actually live fully just lives ourselves. The universal usually just gives us a way out. The concrete gives us a way in!”

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sermon notes – maintaining the unity of the Spirit: Q & A

 

The past several Sundays at MoSt Church I’ve been preaching regarding the unity we share as Christians as a result of the work of God’s Spirit. The last two sermons, centered on Ephesians 4.4-6, were closely linked to the sermon preceding them (based on Ephesians 4.1-3). These two sermons seem to have generated a number of questions. And so, my sermon today will address several questions that some have had regarding these sermons.

And, uncharacteristically, I have manuscripted this sermon, the entirety of which follows. One note: my delivery of the sermon doesn’t necessarily follow the manuscript, but the manuscript does record the essence of what I’m trying to get across in this sermon.

So, let’s start by reading Ephesians 4.1-6 once more … very closely, carefully, thoughtfully, humbly, and with prayer.

I … beg you to lead a life worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, making every effort to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to the one hope of your calling, one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all, who is above all and through all and in all. (Ephesians 4.1-6 NRSV)

Q. Why preach these sermons on unity? And now?

A. Our elders called on me to do so and I serve them in Christ’s name. They detect the need among us and so I am ready to help them feed the flock of which we all are a part (cf. 2 Timothy 4.2). The body of Christ always needs to hear about unity; it is a subject difficult to visit too often.

Q. Are we talking about: (a) unity within our church family, (b) Churches of Christ, or (c) all Christians everywhere?

A. That would be “d,” all of the above, for we are “all one in Christ Jesus.” (Galatians 3.28). What holds true for one field holds true for them all.

Q. The Bible is a big book. Why believe the “Seven Ones” of Ephesians 4.4-6 define our unity?

A. Such is the natural reading of the flow of thought in Ephesians 4.3-6. Vs. 3 mentions the unity we share and vs. 4-6 immediately follows as a precise description of the pillars that hold up the roof of unity.

This understanding is anything but original or “new”; it has been the view of many Christian thinkers, scholars, preachers, teachers, and writers across the ages.

Q. The Lord’s Supper isn’t mentioned as one of the “Seven Ones” of Ephesians 4.4-6. Aren’t all Christians to share in such?

A. Given the apostle Paul’s choice of words concerning the body and its importance to faith in his discussion of the Supper in 1 Corinthians 10.16-11.1,17-34, it seems natural to conclude that the Supper is a part of the one faith’s declaration and celebration of the one body. That is, the Supper, though not explicitly named, is implied in the life of the one body lived out together in faith.

Q. What?! You think there are Christians outside of “Churches of Christ?!”

A. Of course! Allow me to call several witnesses to the stand.The combined testimony of Scripture, reason, church history, and personal experience is clear and powerful.

First, our Lord Jesus himself speaks of principles related to thinking so (cf. John 3.8; 10.16; etc.).

Second, reason tells us that when our Lord said the way is “narrow” (Matthew 7.13-14) that he did not mean infinitesimally so (as is the case if one considers the world’s population and limits the size of Christianity to buildings with a sign out front that says “Church of Christ” on them).

Third, Christ’s church – the one body – has existed for nearly two millennium now, but “Churches of Christ” as we know them today did not even exist until the 1800’s. Are we to believe there were no Christians on the earth for 1,500+ years? Did the Lord’s promise that his kingdom wouldn’t end, falter or fail? Phht!

And fourth, who doesn’t know people they consider full well to be one with Christ –  exemplary even of what a Christian is to be in the development of the fruit of the Spirit in them – and yet, who are not a part of “Churches of Christ?”

Further, when we preach for all Christians to come together on Christ and his word alone, to whom do we think we’re speaking? Are we just talking to ourselves?

And so: are there Christians outside of “Churches of Christ?” Yes, and the question is now seen for what it is: at best it is unobservant and thoughtless, and at worst it is more nearly absurd, insulting, and revolting! If you think not, try asking some of your earnest, Christ-seeking friends how they hear this question.

Christ’s church is made up of all of the saved, but Christ’s church and the people known as “Churches of Christ” are not synonymous terms. The former includes the latter, but is by no means limited to it. We must be Christ-like – not libertarian or sectarian – in our thinking, as well as in our behavior.

Q. Who exactly are the saved?

A. We believe salvation is through Jesus Christ (John 10.9) and no one else (Acts 4.12). We have many clear examples given to us by the Spirit in Scripture as to how people came/come to be Christians (e.g. – Acts 16.30-33). And we know all who make such a start with Christ are to spend all of the rest of their days growing in Christ’s grace and knowledge (2 Peter 3.18).

But, ultimately, God alone knows who are, and who will be, the saved for God alone is Judge and Mercy-Giver (cf. Romans 9.15). We should rejoice to leave this role to him! As you have heard me say many times through the years: “I’m happy to let God do the sorting.” We dare not come to think we’re big enough to play God (the first sin, as old as Adam and Eve in the Garden).

As we who seek Christ all seek to walk toward God together, let’s avoid the ditches on both sides of the road: the ditch that counts obedience as something of an optional matter (Matthew 7.21) as well as the ditch that equates merely human doctrines and doings with the very teachings of God, thereby laying heavy, human expectations on people’s backs (Matthew 15.9).

It is enough that the saved are in God’s good hands and all who seek God should seek to walk hand-in-hand as they can.

Q. Is there a difference between what is necessary for salvation and what is necessary for fellowship?

A. Yes. God alone can save and does so with perfect knowledge, while we humans recognize fellowship on the basis of very limited knowledge. Think of some of the many differences just within the Churches of Christ – we don’t write everyone else off to hell (do we?) just because there are differences between us great enough to make full, outward fellowship extremely difficult or even unworkable at times. And so then, there are matters of salvation and matters of fellowship. They are two different things.

If this troubles you, think of what our Lord said to his disciples when they complained that another was doing much good but, did not keep company with them (Mark. 9.38-40). Or think about Paul and Barnabas going their separate ways over John Mark and yet, both being used by God to further his kingdom’s work (cf. Acts 15.38-40).

Q. “We’re not the only Christians; we just want to be Christians only.” Where’d that come from?

A. This comes to us from both grief and good.

The grief? The utter disgust over the divided state of greater Christendom planted the seeds of the thought and has cultivated the yearnings of a multitude across time: “Surely there must be a better way than this sorry state of affairs of a multitude of divisions among believers!”

And what is the good? The revealed mind of God through his word to us in Scripture gave such to us: to do all in the name of the Lord; nothing more, nothing less (cf. Colossians 3.17). This is the far better way.

Q. You mentioned Barton Stone and Alexander Campbell last week. Who cares what they thought?

A. I do and you should, too. Why? Because they were used by God as developers of our heritage’s roots, these two men helped shape our thinking today. Being godly, scholarly men who investigated the meaning, application, and maintenance of Christian unity their whole lives with intense research, deep thought, constant prayer, and with a wealth of personal experience, they remain worthy teachers of us all still today. Do take the time to carefully consider Hebrews 13.7 on this.

I would add a word of caution: make no mistake about it, there is a strong stream of anti-intellectualism that runs not just through the minds of many within our heritage, but through our entire country as well, and this must be resisted. Where people do not want to know about their past or where they do not care to hear from those who influenced them to be as they are today, intellect will only deteriorate and Christian faith will suffer much for it.

Q. Why can’t all believers see everything the same way? Within Churches of Christ, at the very least?

A. This is a false and damaging expectation to carry around with us in this life for it presumes the exact opposite of what Scripture tells us, namely that here and now we Christians “know only in part” (1 Corinthians 13.9a). We are destined to see things here only “dimly.” First, because we’re individual human beings. Second, because each individual conscience is developed to a different degree in light what it has been exposed to, and enlightened to, of the will of God. And so, perfect agreement between us all is an absolute impossibility.

And that’s okay, because we are not called to uniformity, but unity in the Spirit. Note our role: we are called to maintain the unity that God’s Spirit has given, not manufacture uniformity by the work of our own hands. The unity of the Spirit makes room for diversity where the human spirit bent on uniformity does not.

And recall what we’ve already noted: we are extremely finite and flawed beings, meaning we often find ourselves not content with God’s “Seven Ones” (Ephesians 4.4-6) and often go off in a meaningless quest for the 70, 700, or 7,000 that God’s Holy Spirit did not give us. May God have mercy.

Q. How can we get along with and work with each other if we don’t agree on everything?

A. The same way a healthy marriage between a husband and wife functions: on the basis of continual, loving attitudes and actions of submission toward each other (Ephesians 5.21). No husband and wife agree on everything, nor do healthy ones expect to do so. They know their unity and faithfulness is not dependent on such. Every healthy marriage is not merely a strong statement so, but serves as a witness for, and encouragement to, earnestly seek unity.

It is the same way with the church, the church with Christ. This is the wisdom that we seek: to live our lives together practically in Christ in unity. This is not a dream; it is doable. Where Christian unity does not exist it is not because it has been tried and found wanting, but because it has simply not been honestly tried and pursued.

Just as in a godly, spiritually-healthy marriage “… what matters is faith working through love …” (Galatians 5.6), it is so with the unity of the Spirit in Christ’s church. May the church, the bride of Christ, discover this again and again, and rejoice in it greatly, making it her ceaseless quest, day by day!

Q. What can/must MoSt Church do in order to do an even better job of maintaining the Spirit’s unity?

A. Ephesians 4.1-3 gives us much of the answer. We can seek with all of our being to allow the Spirit’s growth in each of us these four vital elements: humility, gentleness, patience, and love. There is enough in those four words alone to keep us all occupied quite well all day long, every day. So let us pursue them! Memorize them. Reflect on them. Pray regarding them. And let us practice them every we can.

As well, we can work at growing in respect and care for individual conscience on ever matter.

We can strive for a common vision of the Spirit’s “Seven Ones,” deliberately laying aside our baseless and unnecessary expectations of 70, 700, or 7,000 things.

We can get busy, and continue to be busy, working together, for few people who work hard together with a common vision divide.

We can pray: “Let all that is denominationalism and division within us, and outside of us, die!”

We can, with a will, leave the things that God alone can do, to God for him to do.

We can stress what we’re called by the Spirit to agree on, and not stress out over what we’re not called to agree on.

We can deliberately and frequently speak well of each other, pointing out the good we seen in each from God, and refrain from assumption, judgmentalism, and gossip.

We can focus on the action laid out for us by the Holy Spirit in Ephesians 4.4-6 (the “Seven Ones”) and determine to see developed in us in increasing measure the attitudes that accompany the “Seven Ones” (Ephesians 4.1-3), that is: humility, gentleness, patience, and love.

And the greatest of these is love.

And so, let us hear what the Spirit says to the churches, and to us:

I … beg you to lead a life worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, making every effort to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to the one hope of your calling, one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all, who is above all and through all and in all. (Ephesians 4.1-6 NRSV)

And so, having heard the Spirit’s call as to what can agree on and how, let us pray:

Father God, you are One! And so, in Christ’s name give each of us grace to respond to you here and now, and in every day to come, to maintain the unity that your Spirit has provided for us all. Loosen our grip on anything that is not of you, steering us clear of the ditches on both the right and the left. We would have you sharpen our focus on the one body; your one Spirit; our one hope to which you have called us; our one Lord; the one faith; the one baptism; and you, our only Father, God. All of this we ask for the honor of your name. For the betterment of our lives together as your people, united by your Spirit. And for the sake of a united witness to all who are yet to believe. Amen.

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Bible class, children, church & Sunday School: Sunday Schooling Our Kids Out of Church

“… churches creating Sunday School experiences for kids that ran concurrently with their parents’ worship service.  In other words, kids and parents were separated from each other, having different Sunday experiences. … But there was (and is) one huge unintended consequence:  We have raised the largest unchurched generation in the history of our country.”

Churches of Christ & religious debates: Debates

“No person and no church will ever agree on all topics. It is good to discuss many biblical and religious concepts, but all in love and in full fellowship with God, Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit, and all godly people through Jesus Christ.”

Encouragement, grief, mourning & respectTo Mourn, or Not to Mourn [required reading]

“When someone dies our first response should not be to condemn the life that has been lost or those who are mourning. The world needs to see compassion from us. They need to know we care. There are people struggling with depression and drug addiction all around us and to dismiss these diseases is to show a lack of compassion. The way of Jesus is not to condemn people who are hurting, but to come alongside them and to help them in their time of trouble. To help, show compassion, or mourn the effects of drug addiction or depression is not to approve of them. When we do these things we are showing empathy. We are trying to understand and help people escape the darkness they feel encompassed by. To fail to act in this way is to turn our backs on people who desperately need help.”

Generations & Gen Z: Coming Soon to a Workplace Near You: Generation Z

“… the most common definition of Gen Zers as being born after 1996 …”

Ministry: * The Two Times the Pastor is Most Vulnerable; * Higher Calling, Lower Wages: The Vanishing of the Middle-Class Clergy

* “The minister is most vulnerable at two times: in the few minutes before the morning service begins and in the half hour after it ends.”

* “There is certainly a growing trend towards bi-vocational ministry in both mainline and evangelical churches … This trend dovetails with other recent developments that are troubling to many religious communities. Not only is church attendance in long-term decline, but financial giving by church members is at Depression-era lows. Meanwhile, seminary students are taking on ballooning debt for a career that may not exist by the time they graduate. This trend began before the Great Recession, and has only worsened since then.”